I know I just posted. But something else just happened and I'm disgusted and I had to write it out - right now.
One of the teachers that I work with recently 'took an interest' in me. Sent me a text and started up a convo- asked me to send him pictures of myself in my Halloween costume. I didn't send him pictures but added him on FB. We've been chatting nonstop for 2 days via text- he sent me a text last night that said, "Good night pretty woman, can I text you tomorrow?" and then this morning- 8:01 am- "Good morning! Como estas D!? How are you this morning? Did you get plenty of sleep?"
I thought that last year he was married, but figured that maybe he got divorced over the summer or maybe he was never married in the first place, I couldn't really remember for sure how I knew that...however, when an opportunity arose to ask him if he was married- I took it. We were chatting about facebook and I asked him who the girl was in the pictures with him. He said, "some of them are neighbors, one is my sister, some are cousins..." I pushed further. 'Are you married? I thought for some reason last year you were married...' to which he didn't respond for awhile. Then he responded back that he was, indeed, married. I have not responded since.
I am so disgusted.
I've already deleted him from my facebook. What a pig. I am seriously so angry right now. Who the hell does this guy think he is? Even if it was "friendly chat", which I don't do, the things he was texting me were totally inappropriate because he is MARRIED. I would NEVER have texted with him in the first place had I known. Just for the record- he texted me first, I just responded back, not that it matters. But still- I never text any guy first. I did think it was a little weird at first, but figured there was no way...no way he would cross that line. Maybe I'm being old fashioned here- but I don't think it's appropriate for a married man to be texting a single girl, let alone calling her "pretty woman" and texting her first thing in the morning. I mean, back me up here, if your husband was texting another woman like that- would YOU be comfortable with it??? The worst part of it - to me, is why do these guys think that I would be interested in that shit? That I want to be some mistress or something? Me? You must not know me if you think I will play this game with you. I try really hard NOT to do anything that would warrant this kind of behavior out of a married man- I respect marriage and I respect that this is someone else's man. I don't want any of it.
Sorry my posts this morning are filled with hate/frustration. I swear I will be in a good mood for the rest of the day-