Today, while doing massages at work, I was thinking about everything that has transpired in the last week or so and I'm bummed. It seems, as I put it out there- that everyone pretty much agrees- men just want to get laid. Fine. But being single and trying to weed through all of the scum bags of Southern California can be depressing at times; and I'm a little bummed that I haven't found anyone decent to date or hang out with in the last 4 months. We don't even have to date- I just need a good guy friend to do things with cause I am around so much estrogen I'm suffocating lately.
I don't even know why I'm feeling pressure to find a guy to date lately anyway. Maybe because both my roommates have someone and I am spending more and more time alone. I have gotten increasingly lonely these last few months. I decided this morning though, that from now on if a guy at a bar asks for my number, I'm not giving it to them- no matter how cute he is. Every guy I have met at a bar so far in the last few months has been an aggressive ass. The problem is I don't know where else to look to meet someone. I hate online dating and can't bring myself to do it; that seems to wield the same types of results as the bar for me anyway...guys just looking to get laid. I know you have to weed heavily online too- I'm over weeding all the time. It's all I do- weed, weed, weed. It's tiring and so old to me. All these guys do the same things over and over- no one is original anymore. My friends keep encouraging me to hold on- they have met good guys in the bar and also remind me that "hey, we're in the bar and we're good girls so..." but I can't seem to attract a normal guy in the bar. Bar is out. Online is out. I've never met a guy at the gym or at the grocery store- so don't even mention it. I don't really go to concerts, and I work Sundays now so I don't go to church anymore really...
Where can I look to find a good guy?